10 Ways to Create a Narcissist
Creating a Narcissist
All you need to know parenting advice to produce a self-indulgent, ego-centric adult.
- Role model selfishness by…
Not tolerating differences in other people
Encouraging Cliques and Club mentality
- Protect your child at all times by…
Lying and making excuses for your child in homework, absent days from school
Making a big deal out of every fall, sniffle and scratch
Launching unconditionally to their defense when they are disciplined by teachers, coaches or authority figures.
Not allowing them to see third world poverty or injustices
- Uphold the importance of “image” over “substance” by…
Always buying “name” brands
Focusing on the child’s appearance
Making judgement calls on other people’s appearance
- Never make your child wait…
Without an electronic device to keep them quiet in car trips, doctors surgeries, restaurants and the dinner table. Patience is over rated.
- Shield your Child’s ego by …
Not allowing them to see the natural consequences of mistakes and
Never saying NO
Not correcting or discipling bad behavior
Not highlighting their weak areas to improve them
Not acknowledging siblings and friends strengths
- Let your child ‘do what thou will’ by…
Allowing them to watch any show on Television, play any computer game
Choosing their own mealtime and bedtime
Encouraging self-indulgent activities
- Give your child a sense of entitlement by becoming their servant. Make sure you…
Pick up after them
Do all the household chores
Be at your child’s beck and call
Answer their queries every time they interrupt you
Taxi them to unlimited extra-curricular activities
- Reward selfish behavior by…
Giving into the tantrum
Allowing them to damage other people’s property with no consequences
- Showing words are not important because…
You do not follow through on threats
You give in to nagging; a ‘no’ is a ‘yes’ just waiting to happen.
- Reinforce their UNIQUENESS by…
Celebrating their most mundane achievement
Pampering them for no reason whatsoever
Remember, your goal is to create a child with maximum self-esteem, and any truth will only damage their ego.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]