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    10 Ways to Create a Narcissist

    10 Ways to Create a Narcissist

    Aug 1, 2015 | Posted by Nick & Vetti | Parenting, Vetti's Blog |

    Creating a Narcissist

    All you need to know parenting advice to produce a self-indulgent, ego-centric adult. narcist

    1. Role model selfishness by…

    Not tolerating differences in other people

    Encouraging Cliques and Club mentality

    1. Protect your child at all times by…

    Lying and making excuses for your child in homework, absent days from school

    Making a big deal out of every fall, sniffle and scratch

    Launching unconditionally to their defense when they are disciplined by teachers, coaches or authority figures.

    Not allowing them to see third world poverty or injustices

    1. Uphold the importance of “image” over “substance” by…

    Always buying “name” brands

    Focusing on the child’s appearance

    Making judgement calls on other people’s appearance

    1. Never make your child wait…

    Without an electronic device to keep them quiet in car trips, doctors surgeries, restaurants and the dinner table. Patience is over rated.

    1. Shield your Child’s ego by …

    Not allowing them to see the natural consequences of mistakes and

    Never saying NO

    Not correcting or discipling bad behavior

    Not highlighting their weak areas to improve them

    Not acknowledging siblings and friends strengths

    1. Let your child ‘do what thou will’ by…

    Allowing them to watch any show on Television, play any computer game

    Choosing their own mealtime and bedtime

    Encouraging self-indulgent activities

    1. Give your child a sense of entitlement by becoming their servant. Make sure you…

    Pick up after them

    Do all the household chores

    Be at your child’s beck and call

    Answer their queries every time they interrupt you

    Taxi them to unlimited extra-curricular activities

    1. Reward selfish behavior by…

    Giving into the tantrum

    Allowing them to damage other people’s property with no consequences

    1. Showing words are not important because…

    You do not follow through on threats

    You give in to nagging; a ‘no’ is a ‘yes’ just waiting to happen.

    1. Reinforce their UNIQUENESS by…

    Celebrating their most mundane achievement

    Pampering them for no reason whatsoever

    Remember, your goal is to create a child with maximum self-esteem, and any truth will only damage their ego.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

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